Sunday, April 24, 2011

A dearer, sweeter spot than all the rest

The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychology cites moving to a new community as "one of the most stress-producing events a family faces." Combine that with Manhattan's apartment vacancy rate for the month of March -- less than 1% -- and the fact that Corrin and I are two single people combining households for the first time (an event ranked as more stressful than planning a wedding and having a baby combined), and you might have a theoretical understanding of what the last few months have been like for us -- and what the next few weeks will continue to bring.

The Search for a Neighborhood
We started thinking about, researching, and examining apartment listings for various neighborhoods in early November, about a month after we made the decision to live together. Knowing that we wouldn't make the move until late spring (at the end of her academic year and the end of my busiest fundraising season) we still started our research early. We took stock of our lifestyles -- both regarding our life together and our individual interests -- and narrowed down a selection of neighborhoods that would work for us.

Speaking generally, Corrin was less happy with anything terribly far from campus, and I was very unhappy with anything much north of the Columbia gates at 116th. Considering the difficulty and general unreliability of cross-town transportation, anything so far east as to make a walk to campus or an express train unpleasant was completely out. Additionally most of our activities take place on Columbia's campus; in the not-Times-Square theatre districts; in Central, Riverside, or Morningside parks; in the blocks surrounding my office at Herald Square; or in the West Village. We were left with decidedly west side neighborhoods on our list:

The Search for an Apartment
Having narrowed down the areas we were willing to call "home", we started looking at apartment amenities in earnest. We made exhaustive lists of features -- a kitchen large and pleasant enough to cook in together and host dinner parties from; a living space that included some sort of nook that could be used for Corrin's study -- either a loft, an alcove, or a closet (a full second bedroom is almost too much to hope for); a large enough footprint that our cats wouldn't go stir crazy and climb the curtains, with a layout conducive to entertaining our friends (i.e. a bathroom available without having guests traipse through our bedroom, and space for a decent-sized dining table). Good quality light, at least some of it direct sunlight, and some form of green space were absolutely necessary, as were laundry facilities in the building.

After several months of making lists and debating our negotiable points, we reached out in early April to hit up various real estate firms to find brokers with access to what interested us. We found listings that we liked on the CitiHabitats, Corcoran, Bond, Fenwick Keats, NY Bits, and StreetEasy websites, as well as Columbia's Off Campus Housing List, and contacted brokers at each firm (or on each composite site) to compile lists for us. With a less than 1% vacancy rate, our loyalty wasn't available at any price; any agent willing to show us a listing received our attention.

We made appointments to view two dozen apartments between the third and seventeenth of April, and visited nine of them before we struck gold. Some of those first nine met some of our needs; they were on beautiful blocks in the neighborhoods we most loved, were apartments with amazing details and light (there was a lofted space with a fireplace that I fell in love with, but for the fact that it was a closet), or had terrific landlords (Isaac was a young guy willing to make some changes for us -- until we gently pointed out that installing a washer and dryer unit for us would require hiring a plumber to run a water line). Some of them were horrendous -- like the 300 sf 5th floor walk up with crumbling brick walls; even with a view over Central Park it was awful. And then, while waiting between apartments, my gorgeous, genius girlfriend insisted that we take a look at Craigs List.

I'm skeptical. Craigs List? The website where anyone can post anything, where finding a single item of quality is akin to finding buried treasure in a mangrove swamp? But given how stressed out we were by then, and how anxious we both were to just have the whole process over with, I humored her. We sifted back through a week's worth of rental listings, seraching for our neighborhoods as key words. On the very last page was a single, unassuming ad for a one-bedroom apartment in Morningside Heights. The title and description were well-written and free of unnecessary adjectives, the photographs were clear and from realistic angles, the amenities listed were an even mix of what we were looking for, and the price was in the middle of our anticipated range. Too good to be true or not, I typed out our standard inquiry and sent it off, expecting to hear nothing.

Our Perfect Gem of a New Home
Within an hour, I received an email from a young woman named Julie. While her boss, Jason, was on vacation out of the country, she'd be happy to show us the apartment he'd listed on Craigs List the week before. We would be the first to view it, and they weren't planning to relist until he returned, so we could take our time with the scheduling. Corrin and I arranged to meet Julie for a walk-through of the apartment the following Tuesday evening. April 8th turned out to be cold, wet, gray, and rather morose.  Just like us, Julie was early, and greeted us with a warm smile. She's clearly not in the Real Estate business! -- and yet just as clearly really likes her boss, and thinks of him as a genuinely good guy. (Happy employees, and all that.) She took us through the entire building.

Originally built in 1890 (thank you Zillow), the building was completely renovated less than a decade ago. Full of newly constructed condominiums, the building overlooks Morningside Park and also has two gated, landscaped courtyards available for tenant use on the adjacent side. The entrance is bright and inviting but modest, with a small staircase and a clean wheelchair ramp. The mail room is adjacent to the building Super's apartment, and just behind it is a large elevator lobby and a wide staircase that runs through the center of the building.  In the basement is a shared community room (with a full kitchen available for parties), a recycling room, and a set of storage lockers.

The apartment itself is a bright, spacious one-bedroom flat on the second floor. You enter into the great room, a rectangular space running west to east that the current tenants had arranged into a formal dining space and a living room with a playpen for their 4 month old daughter -- and which we'll arrange with zones for studying, dining, and relaxing/entertaining. To the right of the door are two closets, one for coats and shoes and outdoor storage, and one which Corrin has already deemed "the craft nook" for my yarn. Beyond the closets on the south wall are a pair of large windows letting in a great deal of sunlight.

To the left of the entrance and the west half of the great room is a lovely kitchen adorned with numerous cabinets, a pantry, a dishwasher, full-size appliances including a gigantic side-by-side refrigerator, and a north-facing window over the sink. Beyond the kitchen but off of the great room is a tiny hallway leading to a roomy bathroom (also boasting a north facing window) and a pair of closets. One of those closets houses a stacking washer-and-dryer, and the other is a linen closet.

The eastern-most portion of the apartment is the bedroom, again boasting a pair of closets and a pair of east-facing windows. I was so enamored with the kitchen, laundry, and closet options that I didn't pay very close attention to the bedroom, but the current tenants had positioned a full-size bed, a bassinet for their infant, an enormous Ikea Storage chamber, and a chair in the room with plenty of space for us to walk around and explore; I imagine our bed, club chair, and pair of dressers will be perfectly at home here.

Making the Found Space Ours
Julie was as enamored with the space as Corrin and I were, and was incredibly helpful. Within 35 minutes of returning home and comparing what we'd seen against our notes, we called her to indicate our interest in applying. With our potential landlord out of town, she was tasked with communicating with us to collect all of our application materials -- rental history, employment history, work references, personal references, credit scores and statements, tax forms, bank statements, and copies of official identification -- in electronic form. After ten hours of scrambling to collect, scan, and create PDF documentation of everything requested, we turned it over -- and were approved for the space 48 hours later.

Jason returned to town last week, and Corrin and I signed the lease together on April 22nd. While we're still waiting on a precise move-in date (our lease is effective June 1, but we may have the option of moving in toward the end of May, depending on the plans of the current tenants), the hardest part of the apartment search is over.  We still have to find boxes, sort through our possessions, determine which items we're keeping and which should be stored or passed on to new owners, pack everything, move it to the new space, arrange furniture, unpack everything, paint and decorate the space so that it in some way reflects the fact that two different people with a shared couplehood inhabit the home -- but the most difficult, most time-intensive, most stressful part of the shift (at least in NYC) is over.

The Short Version
We have a home in La Petite Senegal, a relatively new neighborhood on the edge of Harlem alongside Morningside Heights. We found the apartment without the aid of a broker (and thus without incurring a $3,500 fee) after nearly six months of research and searching, because we knew precisely what we were looking for, and were diligent about following up on leads. The space has everything that we wished for: a large floor plan; lots of windows with great light and cross-ventilation; a multi-use great room for dining, living, studying, and entertaining; a large kitchen for cooking together; numerous closets and an on-site storage facility for our personal use; a community room and two locked gardens to which we have keys; a super on site; and easy access to the subway for my shorter-than-current commute and to Corrin's office on campus and to a park with community activities (a three season farmer's market, open-air jazz concerts all summer, and community service festivals every few months). We have a landlord who is a genuinely nice guy and doesn't deal with a lot of bureaucratic tape, who is willing to let us *live* in the space -- painting, decorating, installing hardware, etc. as we wish while documenting the changes for everyone's security.  The rent is in the middle of our affordable range, which means we don't need to worry about moving again before Corrin finishes her dissertation, and the neighbors seem delightful -- many of them are Columbia affiliates, too, which means we'll have numerous points of contact for making friends and being sociable.

We are so very happy, in part because the search is over, but moreso because we have found precisely what we most desire: a home where we can be content to build the next phase of our lives.

First published at expetesso.com

Friday, April 22, 2011

Book Review: A Knitter's Home Companion

A Knitter's Home CompanionA Knitter's Home Companion by Michelle Edwards
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Since I started collecting advance copies of books to review at Goodreads, collecting the mail has become one of my happiest tasks. The sense that "something special might arrive for me" infuses my day with some small bit of happy expectancy -- so much so that I broke my own "no buying more Stuff before moving" rule and bought a book for myself earlier this month. Last week A Knitter's Home Companion arrived in the mail, and I abandoned a ridiculous novel I'd selected from the library with higher hopes than it deserved in favor of curling up on the sofa with Michelle's little book.

This is an odd little book. It's organized into brief, titled sections that are more memoir than essay and laid out so that sweet illustrations, asides, and pattern/technique notes interrupt the flow. After we encounter particular people, places, and projects, a page turn reveals a pattern or recipe redolent of their stories. It's exactly the sort of "real life storybook" that I like, and reminds me a bit of Cherries in Winter: My Family's Recipe for Hope in Hard Times, which I read and loved during the storms of January.

I confess that I don't care for most of the patterns included; I prefer clean lines and clearly defined stitches as opposed to the large gauge, bulky pieces that Michelle shared. That said, the Clutch of Inspiration is right up my alley, and the story of The Mitten Ladies and the Pearl mitten pattern that followed with instructions for
charity knitting stopped me in my tracks. Literally; I was reading while walking home from work. As soon as I arrived, I pulled out my stash basket and found something approximating the yarn she called for, then cast on for the cuff. I didn't pick up the book until I'd bound off.

Being that so much of the volume is memoir, I found myself caring deeply for Michelle's family; feeling the ache of loss as she described herself and her husband in their orphaned state, and the hunger after connection she felt -- and found -- in a community of knitters. Characters make any story, and this book is full of gentle sketches of the people Michelle has loved. It's a feel-good read that wraps you up, rather like a nubbly sweater with sleeves you can roll up, in a soft yarn that disguises dropped and twisted stitches with easy forgiveness.

First published at Goodreads

Sunday, April 17, 2011

2KCBWDAY7: My Knitting and Crochet Time


As the banner above indicates, I've spent the last week blogging for the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. I've had a wonderful time with this challenge, as it's forced me to think more carefully about my knitting process and output and what those things really mean to me. I hope that you've enjoyed the posts.

My “knitting and crochet time” is rather ad hoc. I don’t like to sit still without “doing something”, so if I’m watching television shows, TED talks, or NetFlix I will have my needles at hand. Ditto for listening to podcasts of The Rachel Maddow Show and the Irish and Celtic Music show, or live broadcasts of Yankee games. I also have a small project with me for subway rides (I can manage two or three rounds of a sock on my ride to work each day), and allot a generous portion of carry-on luggage for knitting when I’m flying for work or taking a bus trip to visit friends and family.

Frogging a sock on the IKEA Shuttle last night.

See how other yarnies enjoy their knitting time:

First published at expetesso.com

Saturday, April 16, 2011

2KCBWDAY6: Something to Aspire to


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next two days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!

I love the practice of knitting. Sitting quietly (or leaning against the door of the subway) with needles out, softly adding stitches to a project – one after another after another after another. I like simple knitting – long expanses of stockinette and garter stitch bounded by a pretty border of ribbing or seed stitch, socks and sweaters with clean lines and unfussed finishing.

That said, I am immensely impressed by the lace shawls and cowls made by Corrin and the women in my knitting group. They create work from deeply complicated patterns with long repeats or asymmetrical lines, unfolding yards and yards of finished fabric stitched with gossamer threads of wool or silk, seeming more like cobwebs than yarn.

I don’t know that I dream of making a great deal of lace in my life, given that I like simple knitting, but one of the things that appeals to me about handwork is the timelessness of it: every time I pick up my knitted socks, I imagine women and children knitting dense socks from simple patterns as Red Cross work in the early 20th century, and when I work on a blanket (knitted, crocheted, or quilted) I think of pioneer families saving scraps of worn out cloth for winter coverings. In that old-fashioned mindset, I can see a future me knitting or crocheting yards of lace for a wedding dress, or small pieces for a baby’s summer hat.

We’ll see.

~*~

See what other yarnies dream of attempting:
 First published at expetesso.com

Friday, April 15, 2011

2KCBWDAY5: And Now For Something Completely Different


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next three days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!


Dear Lissa,

Don’t you love me anymore? Aren’t I pretty enough for you to wear? Have I offended you? My purple stitches and fluffy ruffles made you so happy all winter – why am I relegated to the hat-and-mitten suitcase now that it’s spring?


Love,
Your Side Slip Cloche




Dear Lissa,

Thank you for the gentleness and consideration with which you’ve been treating us lately. We much prefer your company when you aren’t cursing and stabbing at us with one another while knitting the ribbed leg of a sock.

Love,
Your size 2 dpns



Dear Lissa,

I’m tired of asking nicely so now I’m going to get pushy; it’s time to bring me out to play for awhile. Mike is coming back to New York at some point this summer, and you have to finish knitting my striped garter-stitch rows so that you can finally send me back to Seattle with him. What’s the matter – afraid you aren’t up to snuff? 

Loser!
 
No love,
The Doctor Who Scarf


~*~

See how other yarnies pushed their boundaries:
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Thursday, April 14, 2011

2KCBWDAY4: Where Are They Now?


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next four days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!

I don't have children -- and for the longest time swore that I never would! -- but am thrilled to count six nieces and nephews among the tiny humans in my life. My sister Becky has three boys; one who's nearly 4 and a pair of 2-year-old twins, my best friend Becca has a six year-old daughter and 9-month-old son, and my dear friend Emily has a tiny girl who will shortly be a year old.

Children -- at least these kids -- are happy recipients of even imperfect gifts, and I've cheerfully made blankets and sweaters and hats and booties and dresses and vests and pillows and toys for them over the last few years. For today's post, I leaned on Becky and Emily to provide reviews of the baby blankets that I made over the last year for Liam, Rory, and Mara.

Magic Afghans made as a Christening present for Liam and Rory
Becky reports that her rambunctious boys regularly enjoy their blankies.
"The boys love their blankets!! They use them in the car, in their strollers, to play on the floors, and most importantly, to build forts with!! I have washed them countless times, and they are still in great shape."
Having three tiny humans who routinely climb the drapes and swing from the curtain rods, she hasn't been able to snap a photograph yet. The next time I visit them, I'll try to remember my camera.

Girls of Mara's variety are a little calmer, though that might be because she's still a baby. Emily reports:
"Mara is still too young to have a blanket preference, but the blanket you made is so soft and warm it has been a favorite stroller blanket of mine. I keep it in the basket of the stroller , ready and on hand at all times."
And the photo she sent certainly speaks volumes:

Miss Mara with her giant Granny Square
I'll keep making presents for my kids for as long as they enjoy them -- and I'm so glad that's true for right now. Thanks for the updates, girls!

~*~

See what other yarnies have to say about their skills:
First published at expetesso.com

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

2KCBWDAY3: Tidy Mind, Tidy Stitches


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next five days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!

Projects in Queue with pattern books
As I mentioned in A Tale of Two Yarns, I have quite the stash for a beginner yarnie. Since I live in New York City, where storage space is at a premium (a one bedroom apartment with 3 closets can claim an extra $250 per month in rent over a similar apartment with just two!), and share my home with two adorable cats who nevertheless shed their fur rather egregiously, I’ve gotten creative with my yarn storage.

Project yarn wrapped up
In January, I purchased a set of four wire-and-canvas bins from The Container Store, sized to fit within or atop the shelves of my heavy wooden bookcases. Each bin has a small label on the front and side, indicating what is inside.
  • One is designated for “Sewing Materials and Supplies” – fabric, notions, pattern books, scissors, needles and pins in my tomato-pincushion, extra feet, and the power supply/pedal for my machine. 
  • One is for Knitting “Projects in Queue” – each project-worth of yarn tucked into a sealed plastic bag along with a marked copy of the pattern and any notions purchased for it. 
  • One is for Knitting “Stash” – yarns that haven’t yet been designated for a specific project, similarly bagged and sealed. 
  • The last is for “Knitting Accoutrements” – needles, hooks, project bags, and yarn for projects that are currently in progress (mainly the as-yet-unknit yardage for the Who Scarf, but also a few skeins of Renaissance for the Francis sweater and one extra ball of Lion Brand sock-ease, which I may need to finish my first pair of socks. 
While my yarnwork lives in these bins most of the time, I do have a few project bags for in-progress work. The project bags are tucked inside a sturdy canvas bag that was a gift from my Nana, which lives on the floor near the knitting corner of my sofa.
  • The Who scarf resides in an open tote bag from a Danish jewelry house, given to me by my friend Nicole in 2009. 
  • The Francis sweater is carried around in my Sound of Music project bag, which I made last month. 
  • My first socks project currently lives in a reclaimed plastic zipper pouch that originally held a pair of flannel pillowcases, though I am half desperate to sew one of these beautiful zippered project bags for them, instead.
Project Bag Repository
I’m not the most obsessively organized crafty person on the planet, but my system works for me – with strict adherence to my one rule: I am not allowed to buy yarn or fabric or notions unless there is room to store them in one of the existing bins. Talk about motivation to finish already on-the-needles projects!



First published at expetesso.com

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

2KCBWDAY2: Skill + 1UP


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next six days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!

I learned how to crochet during my first year of college; my mother taught several of my housemates and I during a visit to campus in the fall of 1997. I was never a particularly good hooker; I learned the basic skills and put them to use on simple projects that didn’t require a great deal of thought or attention. I wasn’t particularly picky about my accuracy – since I couldn’t easily “read” my work – so left errors like dropped stitches in place and corrected for them whenever I noticed, rather than ripping back to complete a piece according to pattern directions.

That changed in April of last year, when Corrin taught me how to cast-on for the Who Scarf. Rather than teaching me only what motions to make with my hands, and which particular loop of yarn to reach for with my needles, she taught me how to read my knitting – what completed stitches looked like in-pattern, how to identify if something is incorrect, and how to unknit (rather than rip everything out and begin again). In July, August, and October, my knitting instructor Angela expanded on those skills to teach me how to evaluate a pattern and make judgment calls about substituting stitches or techniques if I think that something will serve me better than what a designer calls for.

Side Slip Cloche
Argyle Lace Hat
Francis-in-progress
I try not to be embarrassed of my first projects – the uneven rectangular scarves, the "not to any recognized gauge" crocheted blankets, the stiff mittens made with a too-small hook. I’ve kept them on my Ravelry account despite wanting to cringe when I look back over them. Instead I think of them in context; there are the early efforts that led to my most recent patterns that require a real understanding of pattern reading and dressmaking -- the Side Slip Cloche I knit for myself in cashmerino, the Argyle Lace Hat I made for Lisa of poppy red merino, the angora Pleated Sleeves I knit for my mother, the still-sleeveless Francis sweater I’m working on for myself, and the lovely little socks that I’m almost ready to make a heel-flap for. Everyone starts somewhere, after all, and my first projects are loved and well-used if not admired for being overly beautiful.

Bracelet Backdrop Sleeves

See what other yarnies have to say about their skills:
Currently Purrin
Mooncalf Makes
And a whole host of other knit bloggers whom I haven't met yet.



First published at expetesso.com

Monday, April 11, 2011

2KCBWDAY1: A Tale of Two Yarns


As the banner above indicates, I'm taking part in the 2nd Annual Knitting and Crochet Blog Week, albeit two weeks late. For the next seven days, you can expect to see a prompted story about my Knitting habits. Enjoy!

Prior to joining Ravelry and attending regular meetups (however irregularly) with professional knitters, my knowledge of yarn was limited to the selection available at crafty chain stores in my home town. I’m not disparaging that selection; there are lovely cottons, wools, and socky wool blends available at affordable prices, and they saw me through a decade of off-and-on crocheting quite well. But that selection doesn’t compare at all to the little specialty shops I’ve visited on my yarny adventures in the city. The breathless wonder with which I step into Brooklyn General, Downtown Yarns, Knitty City, Purl Soho, and Yarntopia can’t be found in the aisles of A.C. Moore or Michael’s – and the anticipation that preceded opening my first box of goodies from WEBS is as yet unmatched by any other hobbyist moment. I’ve found many beautiful yarns, some of which I’ve had the pleasure – and frustration – of working with. Thus, I present a tale of two yarns.

In the fall of 2009, I made my first trip to a Local Yarn Store (LYS). I chose Brooklyn General for my Sunday afternoon foray, catching the bus at Park Avenue in Fort Greene and riding over to Cobble Hill in the sunshine. It was a good choice for a first visit: a pleasantly roomy shop with a large-but-not-overwhelming selection and staff who were polite and helpful but not watching my every eye-blink. I brought home two lovely skeins of brilliant pink Malabrigo Worsted, having fallen in love with the squishy, cushiony, soft-as-a-new-lamb texture.

Malabrigo Worsted in colorway Geranio
Alas, I am a fickle woman. More specifically, I am a particular, fastidious crafty-person; my mother claims that I don’t crochet, but instead that I make one stitch and pause to admire it, then I make another and pause to admire it, etc. The soft gorgeousness of my Malabrigo is inconsistent, unspooling with threads of various thickness. Inconsistency of weight could be overcome, but the resemblance to roving rather than a spun yarn is more than skin deep – Malabrigo has a clearly inherited tendency to felt itself with very little effort. Since I don’t actually like felted textures, and work far too hard on each of my stitches to be happy making them indistinguishable from one another, we simply weren’t meant to be. If only I’d known… anything about yarn.

In the spring of 2010, though, I had better luck. After learning to cast on stitches for the endless Doctor Who scarf, I immediately visited WEBS to purchase a not-yet-sweater for myself. I had something like two dozen patterns in my queue to choose from, all with top-down and in-the-round construction yielding gentle drape and shaping, and all calling for worsted weight yarn. Knowing as little about yarn at that point as when I purchased the Malabrigo, and needing to stay within a relatively strict budget, I started with their on-sale advertisements.

Classic Elite Yarns Renaissance caught my eye first because of the description, “a very soft hand and a simple twist providing lovely stitch definition”, and second because of the plethora of colors available. I figuratively bit the proverbial bullet and ordered 11 skeins in celery, a pale golden-green color that reminded me of the underside of early spring leaves. As a novice knitter who had never constructed a garment (in any craft) with as much detail as is required for a sweater, that large a materials purchase was a big deal for me – and I am so fortunate to have guessed well.

The yarn feels a bit wooly in my fingers and on the needles; it reminds me that I’m working with a product that came from something living, that was worked into its current state with careful effort and cultivation. The swatch that I knitted up and washed softened beautifully, though; so much so that I can’t wait to feel the finished garment against my skin. The best word I have to describe the quality of the dye is “clear” – as if I were looking into a pool of celery-colored water and could see into it endlessly without reaching murky, muddy depths at the bottom. (By contrast, the Misti Alpaca that I worked into a notched, buttoned collar just this January had such depth and richness to it that it seemed to contain every tinge and hue of blue, green, and purple ever invented layered over warm chocolate.) Renaissance is lovely and clean, and for the price at WEBS ($3.95 per 50g skein), an exceptional bargain. I look forward to using the remnants of my Francis sweater in another project, and to purchasing it again after I work through my stash.

Because novice knitter though I may be, I already have a stash that will supply me with yarn for two years’ worth of projects.

See what other yarnies have to say about their favorites:
Currently Purrin
Mooncalf Makes
And a whole host of other knit bloggers whom I haven't met yet.

First published at expetesso.com

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Blog Recommendation: Be More With Less

I had the good fortune yesterday to stumble across a new blog. According to Courtney's About page, Be More with Less is a blog about simplifying your life and really living. Here, you can learn how to create a life with more savings and less no debt, more health and less stress, more time and less stuff, and more joy with less obligation.

The passage that convinced me to subscribe was from a post she wrote last week, titled The Power of One:

Obligations: we overload our schedules because…

  • We don’t want to be seen as lazy.
  • We don’t know what to do with free time.
  • There’s no time to address the fact that we are overworked and overwhelmed.
  • A jam packed calendar means we are important.
  • We don’t want to say no.
  • Being too busy is better than disappointing someone.
Every day that we have too much too do, we are performing sub par and missing out on so much. Running from errand to errand, and place to place leaves us to tired to enjoy what really matters. 
This was my life prior to November. This would still be my life were it not for a newly-won insistence on clearing things from my calendar.

I was thrilled this morning to read a friend's emailed request to meet up for tea, but mortified to see her follow-up line "I'm sure you're booking many months out." I'm so glad to have scheduled an hour with her for next week, and planning to be ever more vigilant about leaving time in my days, and weeks, for the people I care about -- more joy, with less obligation.

What do you think of Courtney's work?

First published at expetesso.com

Monday, April 4, 2011

Blogging About Blogging

Blogging about blogging -- oh, the meta. The lovely folks at blogger.com (Google (since 2003), for those who care but didn't know) have been making changes to the basic tools.  This happens frequently; developers and programmers and code hacks love to improve things, and can't stop tinkering. I'm cool with that -- it's the kind of geekery club that I fall into. (That particular geekery is why I returned to Blogger a year ago after stints with Vox, TypePad, and WordPress; I want to spend my time writing, not thinking about how to make the platform work for my writing.)

At the end of 2010 the new template designer, roll out of real-time stats, and super improved spam filtration were set as standard options for all users. Given the craziness of the last few months, I'm only now getting around to taking advantage of them and implement the items I've been making notations about. Next time you visit expetesso.com you'll see some new bits of fun, like
  • A new template (from Blogger's stash of stock items) that captures my love of old books and warm colors
  • New sidebar content -- including snazzy new "follow" buttons (from MySiteMyWay -- thanks, gang!) for my in-use social networking accounts, and a direct link for RSS subscription
  • A pair of widgets for Ravelry and Goodreads that I customized from work done by experienced API developers, so you can check out what I'm in the middle of knitting or reading. (Major thanks to sarahspins at Ravelry for the yarny base, and to Ettore and team at Goodreads for the customizable shelf badge. Though if anyone can advise me on correcting the spacing of the Ravelry badge, I'd be much obliged; my patience has run out for the moment.)
  • A badge advertising the brand spanking new cdny.org website that Miriam launched over the weekend.
You might also notice that I've been simplifying post labels (tags). Since I'm using blogging as a way of cataloging my journey away from workaholism and toward a lighter, more carefree attitude of play, I'm focusing attention on the joy. I can't imagine any of you are searching for my blog content, but if you are the search widget in the Blogger header at the very top of the page can run through older posts for you.

And while you won't see it quite yet, I'm also working on some new content ideas. Book reviews that are more fun and less work while still sharing meaningful thoughts and opinions. Reviews of yarn and patterns as I slog my way through learning to knit (so that I can write about the sticks on a more frequent basis than I currently do (since I average three months between finished projects!)). Maybe even some better quality photos, as I'm back to reading about line and lighting.

Anyway, thanks for following along on my simple adventures. I hope you enjoy the new elements as much as I do.

First published at expetesso.com

Mini-Break*

I was thrilled to get out of the city in order to visit my family upstate over the weekend.

A megabus ride through the Lincoln Tunnel and along the Hudson River on Friday afternoon got me to the Albany-Rennselaer train station in enough time to make it home for dinner with the parents -- plus enough minutes to spare for an evening haircut, and a closing-the-stores dash to buy a new suit and a pair of shoes for a meeting on Wednesday.

The Croatian Church of St. Cyril on 41st Street near the Lincoln Tunnel,
captured from the upper level of a double-decker bus in motion.
The sun arose Saturday morning over a peaceful, woodsy neighborhood without any street noise floating through my windows. I slept until eight o'clock -- then had a mad scramble through the house to prepare for my sister, brother-in-law and nephews to arrive in time for brunch, to be joined by Nana, friends, cousins, and aunts and uncles. We met the newest member of the FamiLee, as my mother calls us, little Hunter Michael.

Mama Jessica watching while Freddy holds Hunter, Rory gives the baby a kiss,
and Liam looks on with an I-don't-like-this-very-much-AT-ALL expression.

The afternoon was slightly more peaceful, as naptime for the babies let the grown-ups collapse into couch cushions. There was much baking of muffins, scrambling after lost blackberries, shopping for craft materials, and reviewing some of the newest product Innovations from 3M. That last items isn't nearly as out of character as you might think; my Uncle Eric is 3M's lead product qualifier in Andover, Massachusetts, and I'm running an innovation development project at work and exploring 3M's modalities -- it was a great conversation.



The kids woke up just in time for *another* set of cousins and aunts and uncles to arrive for dinner. Three little girls, three little boys, Christmas in April courtesy of the Massachusetts Lees (snow and ice covered mountains canceled several weekend trips planned for the winter), and a wonderful turkey dinner left everyone bubbling with happiness. As my facebook status of the night read,
Mikayla is teaching Rosanne and I about 3rd grade equations. Freddy is wooing Madison, bouncing like a kangaroo with each new idea. (Corrin, you may have been supplanted in his affections!) Rory, Liam, and Maya are chasing each other in circles, occasionally tripping up Rascal and Bear. Penn Station at rush hour is more relaxing than Mom and Dad's living room right now!  
Best of all, there's a whole new generation at The Cousins Table.
Sleep wasn't in any way difficult to come by on Saturday night, and Sunday morning was a lazy, relaxed affair for adults only -- a great deal of coffee and multi-syllabic words were shared over breakfast before we were bundled into cars and buses for return trips.

I didn't read or knit much at all this weekend -- my Francis sweater is still sleeveless and I'll have to return Metropolis to the library un-re-read -- but there's not a moment of time I'd exchange for crossing something off of a mythical To Do list. It looks like I might be getting the hang of this "having fun" thing after all.

* Mini-break, a British noun meaning "short holiday"

First published at expetesso.com